Over the past few weeks, I’ve been planning my brother’s Bachelor Party. I’m not the most manly man, and have been relying on others’ help to point me in the right direction. Call me “too conservative,” “unmanly,” or, “a monk,” but going out for a night of drunken debauchery was not something I had in mind even though the other groomsmen did.
I recently saw this online, and was reaffirmed that, maybe, I’m not so far off track:
Remember, a bachelor party doesn’t have to involve activities that the groom will be ashamed to tell his future wife. If you’re the groom, remember that you want to go into your wedding day with a clear conscience. Keeping secrets from your future wife is a bad practice to begin with, but think about your wedding reception for a moment — that’s when embarrassing stories come out. The last thing you want is a tipsy buddy telling a story about the previous weekend’s debauchery in full detail. You may forgive him, but your future father-in-law may not forgive you.
